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Drill Drudgery- The Recurring Headache

Stop complaining

Have I mentioned how much I hate drill weekends?

I dread the monthly approach of “that weekend” when my husband will be absent from our lives. I know I’m whining…but sometimes you just need to whine and get it out.

Yes, he gets paid for his monthly drill weekend.

Yes, its part of the military life we signed up for.

Yes, he is doing valuable work with his unit.

But…

We lose an entire weekend each month of family time (that’s 24 days of chores, household projects and family outings.)

He has to work 12 days in a row each month without a day off.

He misses many of the children’s school and sporting events (I am forced to sit in the rain and wind to watch fall soccer by myself.)

It makes planning…anything difficult. (Wait…I have to check my drill calendar. Ugh.)

I hate waking up by myself on Sunday morning and drinking my coffee alone:(

Bitch, bitch, bitch…

Now, I feel better. Thanks for listening.

I’m off to watch soccer in the rain with my mug of coffee, my blanket and my camera to capture all the action for my absent husband…

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One Year Ago: Disappointment, Food and Fun – Not Your Average Weekend

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It’s hard to imagine how different our lives were in some respects, yet how much the same in others. As we went to our favorite Craft Days again this year, I reflected on the year that has passed.

One year ago today:

It has been a whirlwind of vivid life in motion the last few days. Anthony missed a Skype call with Elijah which left us disappointed and worried. It turns out he had a mix-up in his schedule, that could honestly have been avoided. I was so angry that I hardly spoke to him for a day or so, which is sort of tricky via email. The sight of my son sitting at the computer with his headphones on waiting for his dad to call is just too much for a mother to forgive easily.

Caitlin came home from college for a quick visit on Sunday and I took my kids and “peanut,” known to the rest of the world as my niece Julianna, to the local craft days. We look forward to it every year; the kettle corn, the pumpkin fudge, the glazed almonds, the variety of handmade creations. It’s always about the food for us, but I do leave with enough handmade soap to last me six months.

The highlight of my day is when Anthony and Elijah are having their call on Skype and apparently Elijah has decided he needs help with his homework. The sight of my baby doing his social studies homework with his dad via Skype from 7,000 miles away is just hard to wrap my brain around. It’s one of those moments where you can’t decide if you want to laugh or cry because it is so sweet, so I cover all of my bases and do both. It almost makes up for the missed Skype call incident. Almost…

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How Valuable is Yellow Ribbon?

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How well do those Yellow Ribbon programs work? I’m glad that the military is finally recognizing both the value that the family has on its military members and the magnitude of their hardships during a deployment. Are they helping? I’m not sure. Are they addressing the real problems? I’m not sure.

What I do know as get ready to head off for a Yellow Ribbon post-deployment family weekend seminar, is that it will be really great to make contact once again with those women with whom I shared a very difficult period of time. What the military policy makers may not get is that while yes we need more information and resources, what we really need most is understanding and support.

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