Archive | September, 2010

Repairs, Conversations and The Mobile Office

Valley Of The Gods
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Busy day. This morning is even more rushed than usual, because I have to drop Elijah at school an hour early for jazz band practice. It takes a herculean effort to get us both ready to leave on time. I am stressed because I have to remember to bring everything I need to work from my laptop and I’m sure I’ll forget something. I drop Elijah and Joey off at school and head straight to the dealership to drop my Chevy Equinox off to hopefully get the annoying creaking noise fixed. They have arranged a rental car for me for the day since I have a doctor appointment 30 minutes away. I wait and I wait getting more anxious by the minute until finally the rental company guy arrives. I have no idea what his name is so I’ll just call him the rental guy from now on. He takes me back to the Enterprise office and things are looking good until… I can’t find my driver’s license. You have got to be kidding me. What is wrong with me? How did I not think to check that? I must have left it in my little wallet the last time I went to the craft days, which also means that I have been driving around without my license for weeks now. Cripes. They can’t give me a rental without a valid license. Now what.

To my great relief they arrange to have the rental guy drop me off at my appointment since they need to pick up some papers at another Enterprise office and come back and get me when I am done and bring me back. We have a nice chat talking about the job market, the weather, working for Enterprise Rent-A-Car, what I do for a living. It’s sort of surreal, like having my own personal chauffer, except he drives a Chevy Aveo instead of a limousine. As it happens by the time we get back to the dealership my car is just getting done and I am suddenly free of my morning ordeal. It’s lunchtime, so I decide to go to the local Panera’s and work for a while anyway. I get my soup, some tea and a cookie and settle into a booth. I have food and the internet. Life is good!

I work for a couple of hours and head home for the second part of my life. It’s drum lessons, a rushed dinner and then up to mom’s house to landscape in the dark. Did I plan to landscape in the dark? No, but that is what I end up doing. Elijah and I plant pots, clear grass sod, dig holes and spread stones. It must have been a rock quarry under there because it feels as though it’s all clay and rocks, but eventually we get it done. The bugs are eating us alive and we end up working by moonlight, but we manage. By the time I get home, Elijah and I talk with Anthony for a few minutes via Skype and I fall in bed.

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Mixed Up Priorities

A could not sleep once again, but I can’t seem to pinpoint the reason. I get up shortly after 6AM, which if we’re being honest is pretty early. So why do I already feel behind? And why have I not exercised, showered or ate lunch at 2PM? What strikes me as I am sitting here thinking about this ongoing dilemma is that those items are in reality should be at the top of the list. Why am I constantly pushing them down on my priority list? I could argue that I don’t do it on purpose, but I am wise enough and aware enough by now to know that at least under the surface everything we do is a choice or at least intentional neglect. The question is why. I do not know the answer, but I do know that the answer is bigger than just my husband is deployed.

Anyway, it’s another busy, though not hectic day of work. I have yet to get a handle on this juggling act. I keep dropping too many balls and it is very frustrating.  I finally get to sweep the garage, catch up on laundry and de-cobweb the basement. The children decide to go watch a soccer game under the lights at school. I am ecstatic, partly because I like for them to be a little more social and active with their friends and also I get the house to myself for a blessed 2 hours. I am grabbing the opportunity to sit in a chair and read something from the stack of books that are waiting before it slips through my fingers.

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Painting and Apple Bounty

Apple picking
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I enjoy the quiet peace of Sunday mornings. I sit on the porch as is my custom of late, drink my coffee and read the paper. Today I am bundled in a blanket due to the dropping temperatures. Fall is definitely here. Today is going to be a typical fall day. You can smell it in the air. After breakfast we head up to mom’s house for another day of painting. Today we tackle my dad’s old office and the main bathroom. I will be so relieved when this project is done. I hope the house sells quickly, because I just cannot keep up this pace of working on mom’s house while trying to keep my head above water at home. There just isn’t enough of me to go around. Jenny and I work well together and we finish by mid-afternoon. Mom and I update our projects and revise our list of what needs to be done. It seems every time we do this, the list keeps getting longer instead of shorter.

I am tired and I just want to go home and flop in a chair, but I really need to spend some time with my son and there are so many autumn activities that we have missed due to the demands on my time. We decide to change and head out to pick apples.

Apple ounty
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What a blast! We have a great time going form tree to tree choosing the biggest and best looking apples. We take pictures, laugh and chat while we are picking, comparing our favorite varieties and thinking of all of the foods we’re going to make. We pick 4 huge bags of apples (actually I pick 3 ½, he picks ½.) Afterward he tells me that that is the most fun he has had in a long time and he can’t wait to go again. Music to a mother’s ears. I make apple cake while Elijah plays online bowling with Anthony via Skype. What an end to a hectic, stressful, busy, fun weekend. This is life in all its craziness.

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